Wednesday, September 14, 2005
I have no idea since when people start to ask each other, "how and How??" In other words, instead of jus trying out by themselves, they have begun to learn to rely on someone for answers. Maybe their philosophy is "Avoid Uni of Hardknocks at all cost," and then "if anything goes wrong, i can blame him/her."
Well, i suppose it is a great idea afterall. Firstly, one does not have to use his mental power at all. Secondly, his emotional side will not be affected as anything goes wrong, "IT IS NOT MY FAULT. HE TOLD ME THE ANSWER," will be his first defensive weapon. And thirdly, his self-deceiving skill has gone up another level.
Come on, lets face the facts. It is understandable that shouldering the blames are rather tough. I've been through that plenty of times. Whenever i've suggest to go anywhere, and jus coincidentally something happened at that place, i ganna the blame. Whenever people ask me HOW and i kindly offer them the solutions, things went right is good. But if things went wrong, there goes my day.
But at the end of the day, no matter how much blame i shouldered, i still manage to learn something out of it. I mean we all noe what exactly is KHARMA. Not the karma but is KHARMA. Well, anyway i mean everything happens for a reason. For every cause, there is an effect. So, for every mistake i make, i learn something and on top of that, i'm slowly becoming immune to all the criticisms.
Well, i suppose it is a good thing. And the moral of this blog is that, HOW should always be the last word to use whenever one is face with any problem. Shouldering the blame if something goes wrong will ensure one learn more than jus using others' ideas.
