Thursday, September 08, 2005
Back again, people always tell me, "Hey ash, this isn't the right way to do this. A better way shld be...." Well, they may right, i don't deny that. The only thing that is bothering me is this: Does it really matters if we must do things right at first try? Can't we be allowed to make mistakes?
Graduating from the Uni of Hardknocks has always been my philosophy in life. Theory simply jus can't sink into my neurotic brain. No matter how hard i try to believe in theories, make them work, it simply can't work.
If thats the case, shld i still be bothered with all the out-of-concern or this is for your own good advices? If i don listen and things really go wrong, then critics will start commenting, "See, i've told ya that earlier!"
Well well, lessons can only be learned when one make mistake. Jus imagine, it is possible to find someone who nv makes mistakes? EVen if there is, if coincidentally he happens to make a mistake, will he be able to take it?
What i'm actually trying to say is that it is nice to offer people valuable advices. However if he/she din follow it and happens to make a mistake, it is possible for us to jus encourage him/her and ensure that they learn a lesson instead of jus keep on stamping him? Well, i firmly believe we shld do the former.
