Sunday, September 18, 2005
It is a totally diff. feeling and behaviour when one is attached and not. Well, seems like even the lifestyle is totally diff. When one is in the former state, you will
seldom find him/her online, with his/her friends, weekends free, cash rich, engage in funny activities. On the other hand, when one isn't attached, you will find that his/her weekends are with his or her friends, poor, always online in msn, writing blogs and bla bla bla. So why do one actually wish to get into a relationship?
It is hard to come out with a logical ans. Jus try from another approach. Some people told me," Is all about FEELINGS. When it comes, there is no way you can escape from it." Well i agree and seems like the emotional force is even greater than GRAVITATIONAL PULL. Newton, you are losing out to CUPID.
Others are telling me, "Come on, is enjoyable and satisfying to be attached. U are practically training all four aspects of human, Physically, Mentally, Emotional and Spiritually.
Physically - Got to acc him/her go shopping, or occcasionally exercising, staying out late and walk from bishan to Khatib.
Mentally - Got to learn how to handle the opposite sex and at times, play some MIND GAMES with him/her. Furthermore, your knowledge in biology will get deeper and wider.
Emotionally - Of course learn how to ctrl when he/she is getting out of their MIND. Tolerate, Accomodate, Compromise are somethings there one will learn. And of course, learning to relieve yourself in times of relaxation
Spiritually - Well, this depends on yourself i believe!
So why not get into a relationship? I shall discuss this tml!
